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20 Things Every man should know about his girlfriend

6/8/2018

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All women wish their man would just know and remember the small details about them. Let's say for instance, you remembered her usual order at that small cafe you both always go to. I promise, it's the little things that will gain you brownie points in your relationship. It will show her that you actually pay attention and care.

Here are 20 Things Every Man Should Know About His Girlfriend


1. Her Firsts. You should know her first kiss, her first heartbreak, her first real relationship, her first time. If you don't, then it's time to play "21 Questions" and find out.
2. Food likes and dislikes. This is important and very obvious.
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Greatest fears. What is her greatest fear? Death? Cats? Boats? Or does it go deeper than that? If she's deathly afraid of cats, maybe you shouldn't surprise her with a cat for Christmas. These things are good to know.
4. Favorite perfume. If you didn't know this, it's time to up your game.
5. Story of her life. This is probably, like, really important. You have to know her name, birth-date, birthplace, names of her friends and family. Also, it's important to discover if she's allergic to anything. You don't want to accidentally kill her. 
6. Favorite flower. Every man buys his woman flowers. Triple brownie points if you remember her favorite type, though.
7. Obsession. Is she obsessed with cats? Candy corn? Shoes? Makeup?
8. Ring size. You only need to know this if you're going to propose to her in the near future. You don't want to ask her to marry you with the wrong ring size, do you? It's important to know her style type, too. She's going to be showing this ring off to all of her friends and family. It has to be perfect.
9. Love language. Knowing her love language is powerful and knowing how she works in the relationship is a game changer. Reading The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman would be a good place to start. Or even taking the free assessment test to learn! Click here! For example: my top 3 love languages are physical touch, quality time, and words of affirmation.
10. Political views. If either of you are into politics, this might be a good one to know. If not, just ignore.

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11. Tampon brand. One day she will call you and ask you to go to the store to pick her up some feminine products. Believe me, she'll love you for it. Make sure to pick up her favorite type of chocolate and some Midol, too.
12. Goals and dreams. You should know what her number one dream is, and goals she wants to pursue in her life, especially if you're serious about your relationship with her.
13. Religion. Just like political views, if either of you are into religion, this would be good to know. Are you okay with being with someone who doesn't believe in the same things as you? Is she okay with it? If this isn't applicable, just ignore.
14. Criminal history. You don't want to be with a murderer, pedophile, or someone who likes to kidnap kids, do you? Maybe you should ask her.
15. Pet peeves. You don't want to make her mad or intentionally piss her off, do you? You should know the things that drive her insane and try to avoid them. A happy girlfriend= a happy life.
16. Favorite sex position(s)/ sexual fantasy(ies). Sex is important in any healthy relationship. If you don't know what she likes, maybe you should refer to number one and play the "21 Questions" game or just ask her. Don't be ashamed, either. It's attractive to a female for you to want to know what gets her off.
17. How many people she's slept with. If you two are in a committed relationship, then sharing how many people you've both slept with is a must.
18. Phone passcode. Trust is important in any relationship. Just because you know her passcode, doesn't mean you need to go snooping through her personal information. But, if you don't know, you should ask (only in a serious relationship) and if she has nothing to hide, she will give it to you.
19. Family/ friends. Meet the family and friends. Remember their name's. Know her best friend.
20. Favorite qualities about her. If you don't know what you like about her, then you shouldn't be with her.
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Nathan
3/26/2020 10:37:35 am

How do I know if this works? I am only twelve and I'm looking for a relationship but the only person I want the most is my best friend but she has a boyfriend. She is the only person that I realy want and I can't have her is there anything I can do to win her over?

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A mom of 6 kiddos
4/9/2020 06:25:49 am

I remember being 12, crushes, and all the sorts! My best advice to you is to not be afraid to tell your friend how you feel. One of those days (sooner than later), you hang out with her, just you and her. You let her know, that you know she has a boyfriend, and that you just want her to know that even though you guys are best friends, you honestly like her more than a friend, and that she should just know that. Then, at least she will know how you really feel. Plus, maybe she feels the same about you, or maybe she doesn't, either way, trust me it's ok. Think of potential relationship like favorite foods and not so favorite foods. For example, let's pretend you love pizza, like spaghetti, and hate fish. If you hate fish, that doesn't make you a bad person, it's just not for you. If you love fish, then that's great! So if a girl likes you back, maybe your her pizza or maybe her spaghetti, and if she doesn't, maybe your fish to her. Overall, don't be afraid to put yourself out there, and don't worry if you're not received the same, because everyone has their favorite person, place, food, and what not. Finally, imagine if you never had ice cream, so you have always loved pizza, and then one day you had ice cream, and you were like how did I ever live this long without ice cream? This is my all time favorite food!!! Maybe your best friend is like pizza, and maybe one day you'll go to high school or college or work and discover someone new and they'll be your ice cream. That's the best way I can explain the understanding of liking people, and people liking you back, or not interested in you. I mean if someone says I hate pizza and you love pizza, you realize it's just a preference. We as people are just one another's preferences. It's ok to be someone's preference and it's ok to not be someone's preference. Overall, just don't be afraid to express your feeling's, because they either like you or they don't, and either way is ok, and you won't watch your best friend get married and sit back and think, I wonder what would of happened if I would of just told her how I felt. If she doesn't like you back, at least you can move on, and if she does like you back, well then at least you both know you like one another and the rest will sort itself out, she'll ask her mom and friends what to do, they'll advise her to follow her heart, and it will be what it will be. Hope that helps some.

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